Thursday, September 4, 2008

Mia's Great Escape


Yesterday I received a frantic call from Trent as I was wrapping things up at a work event. He started off by telling me that he had put Mia down for a nap in her crib as usual, Bodhi was asleep and swinging peacefully downstairs, and he hopped in the shower as he would on any day. He finished the shower and was in the bathroom shaving and about to get dressed when lo and behold, Mia walked in!

And not only did she just walk in, she also had to show Trent two new owies on her knees. Shocked and confused, Trent asked her to tell him exactly what happened. So she began by explaining that first she climbed out of her crib, then she went downstairs and finally she decided to go outside. When she went outside, she encountered a cat in the yard that scared her and as she turned to run away, she fell and scraped up her knees. Her injuries were serious enough for her to seek out the help of Daddy.

Now this having happened on his watch, Trent was beside himself with the details of everything - how did she get out of her crib? She has never attempted anything like that before. How did she manage to get the front door unlocked? What would have happened if the cat hadn't been in the yard and scared her? The questions seemed endless.

And my response wasn't quite what he had expected. Once I was sure that she was ok, I began to chuckle. Then giggle. Until I was laughing out loud at the image of my little girl making her "Great Escape." You see, once the women in my family make up their minds to do something, it's gonna happen. And the stealthy art of sneaking out hasn't been lost on any of us.

When I was about Mia's age, I too, decided I wanted to go outside. So I made my way out of the condo in the middle of the night and climbed into my dad's dunebuggy and play raced the time away. A stranger encountered me there and asked where I lived and where my mommy and daddy were. And, as the story goes, I refused to tell him anything until he came back with a cookie bribe! When I called my mom to tell her, she recounted how my sister, Kristen, also snuck out one night at about the same age. Kristen made her way 2 houses down to my grandparents and proceeded to ring the doorbell again and again until Grammy discovered that the "phantom" doorbell ringer was her granddaughter - she was just so little that she couldn't see her standing at the foot of the door through the peephole. Eventually Grammy kept her post, looking through the peephole and saw a tiny little arm reach up to ring the doorbell and found Kristen standing innocently outside! And then there's the story about Traci, who at three years old, also escaped from her home and walked about a half of a mile to 7-11, pockets full of pennies, ready to score some candy.
So it looks like the Gray family genes are strong and have not skipped over the next generation of little women. And although keeping my escape artist safe means extra vigilance, I couldn't be more proud to see reflections of myself, my mom, sister, aunts, Grammy and Great Grandma in my sweet, independent little girl, Mia.








Saturday, August 30, 2008

Prayers, please

This morning, Trent, Delaney, Mia, Bodhi and I avoided our plans to get the house cleaned up and decided to rearrange Mia and Delaney's rooms. We assembled Mia's new big girl bed, moved the crib to another wall, put the dresser into Delaney's room, moved D's bed to another wall and completely changed the way things look in their rooms. Delaney and Mia did the "crazy" dance in D's room, Bodhi sat in his special seat, entertained by the girls, Trent and I joked together and we all had a truly fabulous and fun morning. I watched it all happen feeling the warmest and most content feelings. My family is here. My family is whole. My family is safe, healthy and above all, happy.

So, why the request for prayers?

Well, although I heard about a local family involved in a plane crash recently, I did not read the entire story to understand the extent of their tragedy. Just minutes ago when we took a break from our picture-perfect family morning, I read an e-newsletter from my favorite yoga studio about a benefit for this family. As I read the details of their story and the terrible situation they are in, I was instantly in tears, unable to comprehend how this will affect each and every one of them. Below you will find details about their story as well as a fundraising event that will take place Sept. 21, 2008 in their honor. I plan on attending and encourage everyone who reads this to pass the information along and attend, or contact me if you are interested in sponsoring me for this yoga fundraiser. And whether or not you are able to attend, please keep this beautiful family in your prayers - the more we can send their way, the better!

Here is information about the Nielson Family as well as the upcoming fundraiser:



The following was taken from Stephanie & Christian's newly designed website to raise funds for their recovery: "On Saturday, August 16, 2008 Stephanie Nielson was in a plane crash with her husband, Christian Nielson, and his flight instructor, Doug Kinnear, near St. Johns, Arizona. Doug Kinnear passed away soon after arriving at the Maricopa County Hospital.
Christian & Stephanie remain in critical condition at Maricopa Burn Center. Christian has sustained burns on over 30% of his body. His wife Stephanie's body was burned over 80%.
For the past four years, Stephanie has welcomed us into her charming abode th
rough the NieNie Dialogues. Far from being a product of creative editing, the Nielson's don't just shine through the selective lens of a blog. They are ingenuous examples of family devotion, eternal romance, and Christ centered faith."
The Nielson's have four children between the ages of 1 and 6. She is a fellow yogi and has brought the gift of yoga to many students who adore her. Their recovery is expected to last for months and cost millions of dollars. It is our turn to help Stephanie and her family in their time of need.
For more information on their recovery please visit her sister, Courtney's blog.


Inside The Bungalow (48 N. Robson Mesa, AZ 85201) will host our fundraiser on September 21st at 6am. You do not need to complete all 108 sun salutations to participate. Refreshments will be served afterward. There are two ways to donate.
1. Donate $20.00
2. Ask friends and family members to sponsor you. Set an amount for the sun salutations ($.10, $.50, $1.00, for each sun salutation. You could raise $108.00 or $1,008. You get the picture). ALL PROCEEDS WILL BENEFIT STEPHANIE, CHRISTIAN & THEIR FAMILY.


And if you would like to visit their recovery blog or to donate:









Monday, August 25, 2008

Who am I?

i am me.

i am: a daughter, sister, cousin, niece, wife, mother and friend
i think: people should try and understand each other more
i know: that my family is a priceless gift
i have: love for the people around me
i wish: all of my family lived in AZ so that my kids could see their cousins and grandparents more
i dislike: negativity and mean-spirited people
i miss: taking dance classes
i fear: that by discussing my fears that they will manifest
i feel: "with my hands" - that's for you, Grandpa and Grammy
i hear: the dishwasher
i smell: black bean mango salsa - yum!
i search: my soul for answers to questions that trouble me
i wonder: what my children will grow up to be like
i regret: signing up for a credit card in college
i love: with my whole being
i care: immensely about the people closest to me
i always: want people to be happy
i worry: about how everything will get done
i am not: a neat freak
i remember: falling in love with my husband - it changed me forever
i believe: people are truly good at heart
i dance: with my daughters often
i sing: even when Mia tells me not to
i don’t always: wish people a happy birthday when I should (and I'm not proud of it!)
i pray: that my children will grow up knowing how much I love them, that my mom will experience greater levels of peace and resolution very soon.
i argue: passionately about breastfeeding, keeping boys intact and making informed decisions about my children
i write: everyday
i win: when I stop and give my children my undivided attention
i lose: when I am too stubborn
i listen: to others when they're having a rough time
i don't understand: why people behave the way they do sometimes
i can usually be found: at work, at home, or at my mom's house with the kids
i am scared: about anything bad happening to my kids
i need: to feel loved and appreciated
i will: get this posted tonight
i forget: how early I have to wake up . . .
i am happy about: my life

i tag: kewal, melissa and anyone else reading this post!

Sunday, July 27, 2008

5 Months Old


Yesterday Bodhi turned 5 months old. It's amazing how time flies and what a fun and happy baby he is! He smiles, laughs, "talks" and can roll over from his back to his tummy now. He absolutely adores Mia and Delaney and they sure do love "The Bodhster." Here are a bunch of pictures from the past couple of weeks. Enjoy!










Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Time Traveling


So I'm sitting here, the kids are asleep and I can't stop thinking about my past. The people, the places and situations that played a role in shaping the person I am today. And today isn't the first time I've traveled "back in time" in my memory. It's been happening a lot lately. Maybe it's because I've recently experienced a life change with the birth of my son, perhaps it's because Delaney will be 13 next month and heaven knows that the tides all changed when I turned 13, or maybe it comes from being totally comfortable, secure and happy in my 5-year marriage to Trent, maybe he and I are entering a new phase of our relationship that opens us up to re-learning ourselves. Whatever the reason, so far it's been an interesting ride.

I have re-lived some hard times, but I'm finding that my reminiscing more often takes me to good periods in my life with good people. I giggle again thinking about my adolescent crushes, wondering if the boys had any idea how infatuated I was at the time. I remember the crazy situations I found myself in with my best friends. I remember how it felt to be me every step of the way. And during these memory sessions I have an opportunity to look at how far I've come as well as where I could use some work!

And in the end, I feel great looking at where I'm at in life. Every day is a challenge on some level - from attempting to function on 4 hours of sleep and finding the balance between work and family to identifying avenues for personal expression and still being a connected and present mother to my kids - but it's all worth it, it's all part of where I've been and where I'm going and I'm grateful for the journey. I'm grateful for the memories. I'm grateful for the phenomenal family and friends that have surrounded me throughout my life (that's you, dear reader!) and I look forward to the times ahead and the new memories we'll create.

So, cheers to the past and hooray for the future!



Sunday, July 6, 2008

A Cut Above the Rest



Yesterday, Ashley dropped in for a haircutting house call and treated Grammy Gray, Mia and me to Scottsdale-style haircuts in the comfort of my Gilbert home! Here are some pictures of Mia's turn. This was her second haircut - she's definitely a lucky little girl to have Ashley - we all know Mommy isn't the most skilled with a pair of scissors!










Viva Las Vegas!



In early June Trent had a bowling tournament (they came in second out of 240 teams in the Southwest!) and I had a one-day work event in Las Vegas so we decided to make a family trip of it. This was Bodhi's first road trip and Mia's first time in Las Vegas. We spent time with Pat, Monica, Evan and Marisa, as well as my Dad, Cindy and their equine "kids" Lucky, Remy, JJ (and I think there was one more - I can't remember his name - sorry Dad!). We all had a blast and the kids are begging to go back and see the horses and their family!

Here are some shots from the trip . . .